"The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said." -Peter Drucker
Communication is one of the biggest problems in marriage, because we all have different ways of communicating what we feel, but sometimes we don't need words. Like in this diagram it is all about body language and the tone of voice. But yet we all are always texting these days and use the internet to connect to people. The problem with that is that we make up our own person in our head. Because they always know exactly what to say to make you feel special. No wonder a lot of people use texting and the internet. It is like writing to your own diary except they write back exactly what you wanna hear. But this is not the best communication. We need to be in person. We need to talk on the phone we need to express what we are feeling through all types of communication.
In person is so important and I cant stress it enough. We get to know people in person as well as start to figure out their non verbal cues.
Lastly, remember in conversation that it is important to use "I statements" start by saying I feel.... that way you are not blaming who you are talking to and esp. your spouse. I changed my relationships with others and I know it can with yours as well.
In person is so important and I cant stress it enough. We get to know people in person as well as start to figure out their non verbal cues.
Lastly, remember in conversation that it is important to use "I statements" start by saying I feel.... that way you are not blaming who you are talking to and esp. your spouse. I changed my relationships with others and I know it can with yours as well.
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