"Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate." -Barnell R. Brickner
Are you preparing for MARRIAGE or DIVORCE? That is the biggest question I want to address with y'all. As a girl, I have been taught that I should prepare by getting an education, getting into a career, getting ready in case anything happens by going to school and becoming the best I can be. Which all is a wonderful thing and we should all be trying to be the best we can be in life no matter what, but by doing so are we neglecting what matters most? Are we becoming so preoccupied by what we want we are not wanting to prepare for marriage as well?
In a movie that I cant for the life of me remember, but it opens with how it used to be back in the day where everyone got married so they could have sex and even kiss and now we give it up so freely that people don't want to get married. I found that really interesting. Why do we give it up so easily? Why when it comes to dating that as girls we want to hang out all the time instead of having girls date us. We just make it easier for them.
I believe that we need to flirt with guys and touch them and go on dates with them, but not make it easy for them. I know at college we have Sunday dinners sometimes with our guy friends. Yes, I make it easy for them and free food, but on the other hand if they want to see me they should ask me out. Getting married and dating can be difficult for some, but I know that it prepares us to get married. It also gives us that social interaction that we all need. I know that I have new goals and want to implement this in my life, because I want to prepare for marriage and stop worrying about what if this happens or that happens.
What are your thoughts?
In a movie that I cant for the life of me remember, but it opens with how it used to be back in the day where everyone got married so they could have sex and even kiss and now we give it up so freely that people don't want to get married. I found that really interesting. Why do we give it up so easily? Why when it comes to dating that as girls we want to hang out all the time instead of having girls date us. We just make it easier for them.
I believe that we need to flirt with guys and touch them and go on dates with them, but not make it easy for them. I know at college we have Sunday dinners sometimes with our guy friends. Yes, I make it easy for them and free food, but on the other hand if they want to see me they should ask me out. Getting married and dating can be difficult for some, but I know that it prepares us to get married. It also gives us that social interaction that we all need. I know that I have new goals and want to implement this in my life, because I want to prepare for marriage and stop worrying about what if this happens or that happens.
What are your thoughts?
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